Depends on the door. I got a steel double door with a 11" jamb size at HD for a slight upcharge. the sill plate was not a full 11" but seems to work ok. I am awaiting a price on a therma-tru entry door with a 11" jamb and sill.......we'll see.
Why not ask, if you can get what you need for a reasonable price why not. If they want to charge a crazy amount, let the carpenter do it.
If you have 8" wall with 4" of foam, you will need a full 12" of jamb. That might be tough to come by. Mine is a 6" core with 5" of foam so 11" is good for me.