Thanks guys, but I already have the sheetrock up. I ended up ripping 2x to create shims for the windows. Most took between a 3/4" and 1" thick rip, then I shimmed them as necessary to make the reveal around the window even. I was able to cut 3/4 xps to stuff between the rips. It worked well, but, like ICFBdr said, it was time consuming and tedious. I think that metal angle idea is good, but I'd still have to do something at the window edge.
David, I did put a bunch of blocks in the walls. Hopefully they'll be in the right spots!
Lbear, I did put PVC in the foam for exterior outlets, septic power, exterior lights, water hydrants, and the ERV. I did, however, forget to put PVC for my dryer outlets and a fresh air inlet for the fireplace

I'll need to rent a core drill and make these.