i am an icf distributor/builder/rep in florida, living in an icf house with insuldeck concrete roofs and regular painted cementicious stucco on all walls.
we have been through several hurricanes and seasonal "horizontal rain" thunderstorms.
no leaks or moisture through the walls. regular 3000 psi concrete in the walls and on all roof surfaces, which, by the way are not yet sealed and some even have the usual hairline cracks.
we also have a 35 year old 5 story icf condo (no roof overhangs at all) in daytona beach, on the ocean, which was build and finished the same way described below, without any moisture problems.
to me the most important prevention of leaks is the caulking and painting of the transition of windows and doors with the walls. my windows are inset halfway into the opening and mounted directly to the concrete about halfway in the opening, with stainless steel tap-con screws (i'm on the ocean... suggest you dont use anything but stainless there!!!). the stucco is wrapped around and into the opening about 4-5" up to the window frame flange (aluminum..aluminium for you i think). that is were a good bead of caulk and paint are needed the most. window sills must be sloped to prevent standing water.
i have inspected icf houses where people had leaks thought to be coming from the usual wall/stucco cracks or floor/wall transition joint, only to find that they had not properly sealed the openings and utility penetratios on the exterior walls. some had screws sticking out of the window frames/mosquito screens/hurricane shutter tracks that had oversized frame holes around them (which were not caulked), were sheet flow of rain easily found its way to the inside of the house.
if you provide your email address i'll gladly send you some pictures in about a week...
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