Hello. Here's my opinion on how to spend your money.

Have a room by room heat loss calculation done to determine how many btus/hour each
room needs(based on how the house will be built). Assuming you can deliver the required heat with low temperature radiant, that's what I would do throughout the house. This will give you the most options for heat sources.
Also, make sure you do your research on radiant heating. There's a lot of ways to do it wrong and a few ways to do it right. Yes, the latter will cost more but IMO don't do it if your not going to do it right.
If your thinking about wood heat at all consider an indoor wood gassification boiler with a large thermal storage tank(water). The idea is to fire your boiler at maximum output with no idling. Storage makes this possible as well as giving a lot of heat to draw off of with no fire going in the boiler. Sized right you could have a set up where you only fire once a day at your convenience and take care of your domestic hot water(DHW) as well. Summertime DHW is easy as well with maybe one fire every 4-10 days depending on usage and size of storage. Low temp radiant heating would allow you to take full advantage of a system like this. If you can give up some basement space for this, you could have a great setup that doesn't require you to go out in the cold/wind/snow/rain.
Now, obviously this means dealing with firewood which as I see it is a great way to stay active and be in control your energy costs. Even buying cut/split firewood is still cheaper than the alternatives.
Here's a great site for more info on wood gasifiers and thermal storage:
http://www.hearth.com/econtent/index.php/forums/viewforum/21/
Food for thought anyway.
Good luck,
Noah