I am just a homeowner. It would be interesting and helpful to know what "too much electricity" means. Can you give us KWhrs? Or at least extra cost. Also, can you tell us what the heat load of your house was calculated to be and what the tonnage of the system is?
With my WaterFurnace, I expected to run aux heat when it dropped below freezing. As geome mentioned, WF gives you a sheet that tells you how much they estimate your geo system and aux system to run. If you want to see my printout go to: http://geochoices.com/pre-installation_info.html and click "Pre-Installation Report (pdf)" towards the bottom. On the 5th page of this report it tells me when geo will run and when aux will run. Of course you must take this with a grain of salt, but so far, these estimates have been spot on for my situation.
I know that my first season with geo I freaked out a little because my electric bills went from $40-$50 per month to $100 - $250 per month during the heating season. But then I took a step back and realized I used to spend more than $400 per month in oil alone for those months. So, I was actually realizing a significant savings.