FOAF...
Perhaps you should consider a "top-sealing damper" to minimize, or eliminate your leaky damper problem! You are correct in yoiur description of a blade type damper that most masons are accustomed to using. However, that type of damper is totally unacceptable in an environment such as yours.
Leymance is the brand name that comes to mind, also US Fireplace 'Seal-tite Dampers'
Both manufacturers use a stainless steel cable to operate the damper which sits ON TOP of the chimney.
The original style blade type damper (such as you have) allow the chimney to fill up with cold damp air, which is heavy, and coupled with negative pressure will create a "cold hearth" syndrome, introducing mega cold air into your home.
A top-sealing damper is a gasketed, nearly air tight replacement, which keeps the cold air and rain out of the flue. Over time, the collumn of air becomes somewhat conditioned, as it is within the envelope of the home. The next time you go to use the fireplace, open the damper and a smoke free start-up is easily accomplished due to instant draft caused by the bouancy of the conditioned air.
Also, as far as a fireplace insert for your see-thru fireplace, what I have done is simply install a fireplace insert (on either side of the fireplace; homeowner choice) and install a set of glass doors for the other side. You can get tinted glass to block the view of the 'back side' of the insert! (or paint the back of the glass black)
A modern wood burning insert will burn much cleaner than your fireplace, will use 1/4 (or less) fuel, and will provide 500% more heat.
Good luck with the project!

Mark