A cut'n'cobble iso & FrothPak between the studs buys you
very little over installing R15 rockwool or high-density "cathedral ceiling" fiberglass batts if to you take the care to trim & install perfectly (which takes less time than the cut'n'cobble solution.) At a typical 25% framing fraction it's only buying you about ~R1.3 in whole-wall performance due to the severe thermal briding of the framing.
To get good performance out of batts, start by taking the time to caulk every stud & plate to the sheathing (preferably with an acoustic sealant type caulk) as well as the seams between doubled-up plates, and foam-sealing where electrical runs penetrate studs. Take care trimming & fitting in some either R15 rock wool batts (Roxul batts are available at most Lowes, and some Home Depot stores) or high density fiberglass R15s splitting them over the wiring, etc and avoid compressing them- tug them out a bit if they appear to not be proud of the stud-edge plane before putting up your interior iso. I personally find rock wool a lot easier to trim & fit well than fiberglass (YMMV), and there isn't as much of an air-suspended particulates issue either (but still wear some sort of air-filtering mask when installing them.)
Whereas iso cavity fill buys you little, the 3/4" foil faced iso on the interior buys you a LOT, and if you have space to accomodate a full inch it would be even better. (With R15 batts and 1" iso it would exceed the performance of what you were proposing, and it would cost less & go up quicker.) Air-seal the iso to the framing as you go with acoustic sealant, and seal the edges with can-foam or FrothPak, then seal the seams with 2" FSK tape. At 3/4" it adds about R4 for whole-wall performance, which is about a 35-40% boost in total R value (a bit less, if you punch 1000 thermally bridging nails & screws through it so be sparing). The foil facer puts a very strong vapor retarder on the interior, which is appropriate for a Minneapolis climate on a plywood sheathed clapboard-sided 2x4 framed house.
Air sealing the attic from the conditioned space is a critical first-step before insulating up there, and as long as there is at least some ventilation between attic & the outdoors it should be fine once you've insulated and put up foil-faced iso as the interior vapor barrier. Better than adding fiberglass over the top of the pre-existing fiberglass, blowing in cellulose fills in the gaps far better and stops it from losing performance at the cold-temperature extremes, due to the much lower air-permeability of the cellulose (even at 1.5lb open-blow density). It's not rocket science as a DIY with a rental blower. Draped batts ALWAYS have open seams that leak heat, wheras blown goods don't. Install chutes to keep it from clogging soffit vents, and staple some depth gauges around to be able to rake it smooth and level, and you'll have a seam-free low-permeabilty cap to the joist-batts that prevents convection through the fiberglass to the cold attic air (which becomes a serious performance hit to standard density fiberglass batting when it's 0F in the attic.)
The 3/4" XPS on the floor is way below what makes sense under a radiant floor in your climate (or any climate, for that matter). Adding a 1.5" or even 2" layer of XPS would not be insane, if you have the headroom to work with. You may be able to level up the floor with dry sand under the new foam layer, and TapCon the new subfloor to the slab to keep it from moving around on you. If the headroom is squeaky-tight you might buy yourself a half-inch to an inch at the same R going with
Roth panels or similar.