In most of the passive solar homes that I design (usually 1200-2000 ft²) I incorporate a small on demand boiler to run domestic hot water and the slab with pex in the slabs.... It helps to keep the slab temp even on those cloudy cold days. Now I dont usually do all the heating calcs.... I let the guy that is installing the boiler do that work. A digital thermometer with in the slab sensors is rather manditory when you do hydronic in conjunction to passive solar.... and their is some fiddling around to get the settings correct.
I find as long as you have the correct overhangs to minimize overheating in the summer, the right percentage of glass to floor area, good venting, and that the slab is insulated correctly.... you're good to go. Its not rocket science like a lot of people would like you to believe. Most old schoolers that dont have radiant hydronic integrated in just fire up their wood stoves to supplemental heating.
If I was designing your home for you it would not be as square as you are aiming for a number of reasons. 1. difficult to get good convection and ventilation 2. you will get uneven heating....which will make that pex necessary . I prefer to have a more length along east west axis. Have operable windows on north and south sides.... low windows on north side.... high windows on southside. Dont do flat 8' high ceilings.... have vaulting... have windows up high to dump heat, I use motorized awing or crankpole.
Where it gets tricky is when you are trying to do no heating other than the passive solar direct gain slab (carbon neutral).... there you have lots of math to do. Hope this helps some. I know that I am not giving you as scientific of an answer as some might. The beauty of passive solar with some supplemental heating is that it really is pretty simple. Keeping the scale of the home down helps too. You can see a write up of some of the other aspects to think about in the designing of passive solar homes on my blog
here. The trick to doing a nice passive solar home is how to make it beautiful, functional, comfortable, and a good roll model in the neighborhood. There have been too many incorrectly designed ugly passive solar homes built which has ruined potential home builders perception of it worth. I wrote an article about this
here.