UK friend, I'm impressed with your graphical tools -- or at least your creativity in description

. Anyway, i would just cut the slots in the foam and not mess with redesign cost and etc.
I must agree with Colorado however that you probably don't need the foam thickness whereever you are (in the UK? North Pole?). Is this building going to have any windows or doors? Keep in mind that although you may choose to increase your r-value off the chart you are dealing with a series of weakest links and heat is going to find them. How, exactly are you doing your attic (or roof) and your windows and doors.
First let me say that my hat's off to you since your going ICF so sorry 'bout the rant. Second, I have a more or less similar "conversation" with builders here....
FYI: Around the world, R-values are given in SI units, typically square-metre kelvins per watt or m²·K/W (or equivalently to m²·°C/W). In the United States customary units, R-values are given in units of ft²·°F·h/Btu.
So... r-value is about what heat gets through (or lack of heat - known as cold). If you had a mystical r-1000 material between your 2x4 studs of your house you will still have 15%-20% of your home performing to the r-value of wood due to the studs, headers and etc. Thus your average r-value would be about 800. Sounds good ---- but 20% of your structure is still performing to about r-1 per inch or approximately r-4 at best (close to that of a very high end window). So when you do the math you'll find that your building still can't beat an ICF performanc of continuous r-22 plus.
Why bore you with this story? What is your plan is for the rest of the building -- windows and roof. Unless your windows and roof are "way up there" and they don't allow connections inside to out with wood or steel --- you may may be wasting your money. Basically, ICF as it stands (typically around r-22 or so) already puts the burden right back on the roof in a big way and on the windows in an even bigger way.
If you are trying to meet code in the UK (and i have read a thing or two about some new extreme rules for r-value in the UK - is that correct??? ) --- don't feel bad, our government and rule makers in the area of thermal performance, etc. don't and haven't understood, r-value very well either (or to be fair, choose not to understand). Thermo is not just about conduction. Regards.