Quantum,
Happy Holidays.
I am working with a structural engineer but my concerns are thermal :( As far as the roof deck, load is on the joists. The slab spans between them. For example, one room is 30' by 30'. All 4 walls are ICF. The floor is supported by 7 joists. The loading is concentraited on the point of contact for these 7 joists. Perimeter of the slab carries nothing along the walls where the joist rests and just 2' by 30', half the distance between the first joist and parallel wall. This can be comparred to a wood framed floor. So in my proposal, the 1/4" fiberglass sheet would go under the joist foot. HD foam would go between the joists.
The outside mid level deck is on steel posts, no cantilever.
Patrick T