I have asked and gotten some answers from a bidder

whom I really like. I tried to highlight my Q's but it won't take in this body. So all fonts ar the same size and color. Bear with it but you will be able to read my Q's and the answers. Should I ask or check into anything else. Also, is Is DX better than water?
My Q's and A's:
Since you put me at 4 ton stating that since I am zoning you could drop from 5 to 4. What happens if I have the same temperature set at both levels with zoning for days on end? Can a 4 ton provide for my needs? I don't want to under or over size. The loop field is designed to cover the heating load. The odds of all three zones calling is slim and if that should happen the zones are prioritized. There is a balance between the heating and cooling loads that we need to size the equipment. If we size to the heating the cooling will be over sized and vice versa if sized to the cooling the heating is under sized. The zoning system throws in another hand full of variable as in the odds of the system being needed all zones at once is very slim. The heating and cooling requirements for each zone vary, for example the basement heating requirements are higher, due to the nature of a basement, than a zone on the main floor.
What is the heat load and cooling load? Heating is 74863 cooling is 48611 (sensible) for the entire house What winter and summer design temperatures are you using? Winter is 0 degrees and summer is 94 degrees What are you suggesting for the system-ethylene or propyline and what is the concentration in water? 10% propylene 90% water we can use either it just changes the fluid factor on our btu exchange What is the ARI for heat loss for my home? Will you be able to show me? I have the manual J form What size backup heat stripes do you suggest? 20kw Is this a 2 stage HP? yes Do I have a third stage for the electrical back-up? The electric will be third stage and the heater itself is staged How much KW will the unit take, especially in auxiliary heat mode as I don't want to blow up my generator? Amperage will very, worse case scenario KW will run 3.07 in heating with a full load, the heater will take up to 20 KW if being used I am interested in the LRA (locked rotor amps) and how many amps is in the LRA. 96.0