Bruce,
I have not lived in Europe but spend much time there on biz, Milan/Vienna and Prague. That is partialy why we are going 100% concrete. With regards to floors, look at Hambro steel joists. Scott Gruer at 416 674 8031 should be a big help. We are also going with a flat concrete green roof, again Hambro. As far as the the steel vs. ICF bearing walls, the ICFs are ready for sheet rock and mechanicals. Steel, your just begining.
Patrick T.