Thanks Ronmar!
Yes, pumps should be properly sized given the flow that they will need to provide and given the hydraulic friction head from the PEX size/length that they will expericnce at this flow rate. As stated in the software instructions, this can be very intimidating software at first blush. However, the instructions are detailed and thoudands of DIYer have accomplished successful designs using this software. Please don't hesitate to contact us if you have any questions. Here is the link to the software:
Borst Hydronic Radiant Floor Heating Design Software