We installed our geo unit last spring. We ran into the same problem. We needed 10 gpm and 400' depth. At 349' we had 2 gpm but 50' still to go.
At 350' we had a gyser come up. The drillers could not continue as the water presure was greater than they could releive. Our well is producing 150+ gpm.
We ended up puting in a 3" pitless addapter 8' down to releive the pressure, and took the water supply in at the 5' level. Because we did not want to dump millions of gallons of water on the banking, I had a 20' x 40' bottomless concrete tank burried. The excess water is piped into that tank and it has a 40' level spreader. This way we leach as much water as possible back into the water table. The rest that comes out of the level spreader, the banking can absorb it without any trouble. The good news is I will never run out of water, and have a consant water supply for an irrigation system. The bad news is the money I was going to use on installing solor panels went into the well.
One of the concerns we had was would the well take back the water we needed to pump back ( open loop system ) I only have a 3 ton unit, so we needed the well to take back 9 gpm. Our other concern was the well water temp. This is not an issue as the well pressure is so great any water pumped back into the well doesn't go down. It is forced back up to the relief valve. The water temp is a constant 49 degrees. The well pump ( vari-speed) is sitting down at the 335' level.