I was in the same boat as you, in the mid west there is a lack of "experienced" icf guys...... I found a guy I felt I could trust, meet with him three times, went to his projects, talked to his previous customers, and when with him.....
I was also concerned with the kind of bloc as well, but in the end went with Nudura, not because I thought it was better or worse than other bloc, but because the ICF sub I anted to work with had a lot of experience with it and he felt most comfortable with it
In my opinion experience is the key
And after I thought about it, I said, why am I worried about the bloc anyway, would any of us normal home buyers every ask the builder what kind of nails, drywall or where they get there wood from ? No you make your decision based on there previous work
OK when I built my home I had the following issues
LOCAL INSPECTORS : They just don't see this and come up with goofy things, for me they included
I HAD TO DRYWALL MY BASEMENT WALLS, because in a fire they thought it would catch fire...btw, the foam will melt before it burns, so I had to stick more flammable drywall on top of my foam : )
I have a 2 story ICF home, had to get an engineer to sign off on the design to meet a state code regarding sheer wall heights made of concrete
Insurance : All the bloc guys rave about special insurance rates for ICF, in the Midwest, they don't know what this stuff is, so you wont get some uber deal on insurance, in the Midwest they classify it as masonry.
ARCHITECT : You will have to hire an architect even if your using a "stock plan" because every town has different codes, and you'll want one handy to make changes. I got lucky, I had a friendly and knowledgeable architect who got the whole idea, and didnt charge me an arm and a leg for little changes to make the inspectors and county planning people happy : )
The Good things about ICF
I live on 20 acres of open farm ground, and when it gets windy, wow it is soo nice to have an ICF home, it really does keep the wind and noise out
Utility bills, my previous home was 1200 sq feet, my ICF home is 2200 sq feet, plus a finished basement, and my utility bills are the same... so twice the house for the same utility bill, not too bad
The decision to go ICF is a personal one, you can stick build a house and uber insulate it for less, you have more design options with stick built, you have more contractors to choose from with stick built, etc.etc....
For me, I choose ICF because I wanted a real house... I went thru soo many stick built homes and they just felt flimsy to me, and when weather gets bad, you just feel safer knowing there is 8 inches of concrete and steel separating you from the rest of the world.... and after seeing the mess in Japan, you have to ask yourself.
If natural or man made disaster hit, where would you want to be, a house built of 2x4's and nails or of 8-12 inches of concrete and steel ?
My suggestion, go tour a few ICF homes on a windy or stormy day, you'll feel the difference