Posted By levigarrett93 on 09 Mar 2011 11:36 AM
Another 2 by will be fastened for my nail flange. So ultimately all my rough opening will be 1/2" bigger then my window nail flange.
Consider removing the flanges from the window and anchoring with (whatever they're called) clips that are used in masonry construction. Andersen Windows has installation details available on their web site. Give careful consideration to water flow. Preventing water intrusion absolutely can be futile, so make sure that whatever water gets past your first barrier has a way to drain down and out and not seep inside the structure. Recessing your windows can make this more challenging, I think. Don't forget to include provision for moisture barrier flashing such as Tyvek FlexWrap. Myself, I would install the windows with the flanges on the outside of the foam simply because I think it will be easier to put them in and get a good water seal. With external mounting you can avoid caulking the bottom edge, both the flange and siding, to allow an escape path for whatever water may get behind the flange.
What kind of siding are you planning on? If it's stucco think about this approach, which I don't recall anyone ever suggesting. Do the stucco finish completely, including wrapping it around and into the window openings. Then install the windows, sans flanges, into the stuccoed opening just like you would do with masonry construction. Caulk between the stucco and window frame will provide the water barrier, and foam insulation will provide the air barrier.
Based on my one experience of building a house 1/2" larger than the window for your rough opening is way too tight. I would recommend 3/8" to 1/2" on each side, and up to 1 1/2" total up and down. But on the other hand if your father has installed many windows then maybe you will be comfortable with a tight fit. However, you're likely to have more vertical variation in your window openings in ICF than in 2x framing, especially since this is your first ICF build.
Have you looked at the threads that were posted here during the past 4 years about window installations? The subject has been discussed quite a bit, especially about 3 to 4 years ago when I was planning and building my house. If you have trouble with the search function come back and I and others can help you locate them.