The block I linked isn't "fireproof".
AFAIK, there is NO such thing as "fireproof" ICF.
Merely that there are varying ratings of fire resistance.
The linked block, when exposed to flame, has a 4 hour burn time rating (which is normal for most ICFs).
And note that, with that type of block, you don't wind up with a solid concrete wall. You wind up with a concrete honeycomb.
From my understanding, most of the foam used by ICFs contain fire-retardant in it now.
Talk to your local ICF vendors
https://www.icfmag.com/2008/08/fireproof-icfs/
In a fire, you ARE going to have damage. Either heat-induced or fire-induced.
It's just, with a concrete structure, you're looking at essentially COSMETIC damage unless the burn goes on too long.
Things like keeping your yard, gutters and roof surface clear of debris will cut down on the danger to the structure itself.
And, if you lose the exterior foam, many ICF providers have retrofit panel systems for cases where the exterior insulation is compromised.
http://www.quadlock.com/retrofit_insulation/index.htmYou best bet, however, is to talk to your engineer and/or designer and come up with a strategy for making the house and surrounding area as fire-resistant as you can within your budget.
Also, you're kinda right to worry a little about stone/brick veneer.
I was thinking more in line with an ACTUAL brick exterior. It's tied back into the webbing But only with small fasteners every few courses. So heat transfer (from the middle of a mortar joint) should be minimal. And more, the brick facing isn't tight to the wall. There's an air gap in there for moisture release.
Going nuts and doing something like adding an additional layer of rockwool to the exterior probably wouldn't increase the burn time any and wouldn't really help the web-melt problem.