Inittowinit,
If your "in it to win this one", such your name states, you should consider professional help. Not as in "Dr.SoinSo" to get your head examined , but a skilled set of hands to run this project. I'm an engineer and have 15+ years in the construction world. I still count on folks that know their job better than I do. I agree that ICF looks as simple as stacking Legos, but there not. This is what gets a lot of people in a pinch. By the time you rent bracing, walk boards and a vibrator. your costs will start to add up.
I reccomend you get someone to handle your project. If you go T&M, Time and Material, you can save what ever labor you and your family/friends can contribute.
Going with ICF construction is smart for many reasons, soilid/safe/efficient. I would not choose ICF over wood because it's easy. both require a skill set. Every mistake you make comes off your botton line of savings. You make a bunch, and it ends up costing
Can it be done by an inexperinced person, you bet with some research and learning.
Patrick T.